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父愛(ài)的英語(yǔ)作文
人們經(jīng)常贊美母愛(ài)的無(wú)私。其實(shí)，父愛(ài)同樣是偉大的。他們把愛(ài)深藏在內(nèi)心，而不輕易顯露。我的父親就是這樣的。有一次，我病了，媽媽又不在家，爸爸又當(dāng)爸又當(dāng)媽。他下班回家的第一件事就是給我做晚飯。他喂我吃飯的樣子讓我想起了善良溫柔的媽媽。他的眼中充滿著愛(ài)憐和期待。彼時(shí)彼刻，我真的感受到了父愛(ài)。
Father's Love
Mother's love wi people's praises for its selfle e . In fact, father's love is as great as that. They bury their love in the deep bottom of their hearts and will never show it. My father is of this kind. I remembered once I felt ill. Mother wa 't at home at that moment. Father acted as a father and as a mother as well. When he came home from work, he would cook di er for me first. The way he fed me made me think of my kind and tender mother. His eyes were full of love and expectation. I did feel a father's love at that time.
Motherly love by its very nature is unconditional. Mother loves the newborn infant because it is her child, not because the child has fulfilled any specific condition, or lived up to any specific expectation.Unconditional love corresponds in one of 'the deepest longings, not only of the child, but of every human being; on the other hand, to be loved because of one's merit, because one deserves it, always leaves doubt: maybe I did not please the person whom I want to love me, maybe this or that--there is always a fear that love could disappear. Furthermore, "deserved" love easily leaves a bitter feeling that one is not loved for oneself, that one is loved only because one pleases, that one is, in the last analysis, not loved at all but used. No wonder that we all cling to the longing for motherly love, as children and also as adults. The relationship to father is quite different. Mother is the
home we come from, she is nature, soil, the ocean; father does not represent any such natural home. He has little connection with the child in the first years of his life, and his importance for the child in this early period cannot be compared with that of mother. But while father does not represent thenatural world, he represents the other pole of human existence; the world of thought, of man-made things, of law and order, of discipline, of travel and adventure. Father is the one who teaches the child, who shows him the road into the world. Fatherly love is conditional love. Its principle is "1 love you because you fulfill my expectations, because you do your duty, because you are like me." In conditional fatherly love we find, as with unconditional motherly love, a negative and a positive aspect. The negative aspect is the very fact that fatherly love has to be deserved, that it can be lost if one does not do what is expected. The positive side is equally important. Since his love is conditional, I can do something to acquire it, I can work for it; his love is not outside of my control as motherly love is.
母愛(ài)和父愛(ài)
母愛(ài)的天性是無(wú)條件的。母親愛(ài)她的新生嬰兒，因?yàn)槟鞘撬暮⒆樱皇且驗(yàn)檫@個(gè)小孩符合了什么特別的條件，也不是因?yàn)楹⒆舆_(dá)到了她的某種特別的期望。無(wú)條件的愛(ài)符合——不只是小孩子，而且是每個(gè)人最深切的渴望。另一方面，如果因?yàn)樽约旱膬?yōu)點(diǎn)，因?yàn)樽约褐档脨?ài)而被別人愛(ài)，我們總會(huì)心存疑慮：可能我沒(méi)有使那個(gè)我希望他(她)愛(ài)我的人滿意吧?可能這個(gè)，可能那個(gè)——總是害怕那份愛(ài)會(huì)消失。而且“值得的”愛(ài)很容易令人產(chǎn)生一種辛酸的感覺(jué)：似乎一個(gè)人不是因?yàn)樽陨矶粣?ài)，而是因?yàn)樽约嚎梢粤顒e人高興，令別人滿足才被愛(ài)，似乎自己根本不是被愛(ài)而是被利用了。無(wú)怪乎我們?nèi)家缿�、渴望著母�?ài)，不論小孩還是成年人都如此。
孩子同父親的關(guān)系就完全不同了。母親是我們的發(fā)源地，她是自然、是土壤、是海洋；父親不代表任何這些自然的歸宿。在孩子初生的前幾年中，父親和孩子接觸很少。在此期間，對(duì)于孩子來(lái)說(shuō)，父親的重要性遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)比不上母親。但是，雖然父親不代表這自然的世界，他卻代表了人類存在的另一極——思想的世界、人造的世界、法律和秩序的世界、紀(jì)律的世界、旅行和冒險(xiǎn)的世界。教育孩子的人是父親，向孩子展示通向世界之路的人也是父親。父愛(ài)是有條件的。它的原則是：“因?yàn)槟氵_(dá)到了我的期望，因?yàn)槟阃瓿闪四愕穆氊?zé)，因?yàn)槟阆裎�，所以我�?ài)你。”在有條件的父愛(ài)中，我們(像在無(wú)條件的母愛(ài)中一樣)發(fā)現(xiàn)它既有消極的一面，又有積極的一面。消極的一面是父愛(ài)的給予只在你值得得到愛(ài)的條件下，而且如果你沒(méi)有做到他所期望的事，你可能會(huì)失去這份愛(ài)。積極的一面也同樣重要。既然他的愛(ài)是有條件的，我可以采取一些辦法去獲取它，我可以為之而努力；他的愛(ài)像母愛(ài)一樣，并沒(méi)有越出我的控制力。
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