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別人如何看待你 重要嗎？
Do you really want to know what people think of you?
你真的想知道別人是怎樣看待你的嗎？誠(chéng)懇的意見(jiàn)可以幫助你正確認(rèn)識(shí)自己，解決潛在問(wèn)題，當(dāng)然也有可能使你丟臉，
別人如何看待你 重要嗎？
。而我則對(duì)這種反饋持中立態(tài)度。有一次我從衛(wèi)生間回到飯桌上，大家都在看著我笑，然后有人丟過(guò)來(lái)一張餐巾紙，上面寫(xiě)著：“你褲子上掛著一張衛(wèi)生紙。”我多希望是自己發(fā)現(xiàn)了它，然后假裝大家都不知道�。�
Imagine finding out what your friends, co-workers, exes, crushes and acquaintances really think of your personality, body, attitude or intelligence. A lot of people are talking about a Facebook app that lets you solicit anonymous feedback from people who know you. Some say it can help you be the best you possible, others fear that it’s downright hurtful and scary. Where do you stand on the matter? I’ll start off by telling you a really embarrassing story...
Once, when I was out to lunch at a restaurant with a bunch of colleagues, I got up to use the restroom, and as I returned to the table, I had this feeling that people were eyeing me. I shrugged it off, thinking they were probably ogling my enormous 8-months pregnant belly.
Um, no. About 10 minutes later, two women walked over to my table--in front of everyone--and dropped a folded napkin in my lap. They giggled as they quickly walked away. Of course, everyone at the table stared at me as I unfolded the napkin and read what it said:
"We just wanted you to know that you have toilet paper hanging off of your pants."
I turned five shades of fuchsia as I turned around and noticed that I had a 4-foot-long strand of toilet paper (clean--it wasn’t that bad) wedged into the elastic waist of my maternity pants.
Of course, I was glad to know the toilet paper was there. But I was so humiliated! Part of me wished I’d just discovered it myself as I stood up and grabbed my coat. There’s something sort of blissful about believing that people don’t notice your flaws and flubs, isn’t there?
That’s why I’m a little on the fence about the Facebook application called Honesty Box. Here’s how it works: You download the app to your Facebook page and people can go in and anonymously tell you what they think of you. Anything goes! You might find out that someone thinks you’re gorgeous, or not. Or that someone has been holding a grudge against you since the seventh grade and still hates your guts. All is fair game with Honesty Box.
Psychology Today recently highlighted the app in their current issue in a feature about "how to see yourself as others see you."
The good: A program like this could help you get a better view of yourself, fix potential problems, and become your best self.
The bad: It could also lower your self image with comments and cheap shots from people who are just trying to be hurtful, not necessarily honest. Example: Do you really need to know that someone didn’t like the outfit you wore to work today? (Note: There have been reports of cyber-stalking and bullying via Honesty Box.)
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